After my rape, apart from desiring the role of motherhood, I desired the role of a hairstylist, hmm 🤔 hairstylists just like moms ultimately have control over someone else wow! I wanted control back because it was taken away from me! 

As a hairstylist:

• You’re physically guiding the process
• You decide what happens and when
• Someone is in your chair, but you are leading the outcome
• There are boundaries, consent, and clear roles
• You can “transform” something in a controlled, visible way