Once heard a light-skinned black pastor say, “Sex is overrated.” 🤔 For darker-skinned black women, that lands heavy. Why? Because society has always labeled us hypersexual—flirty, “too much,” out of control.
- Posted on February 17, 2026
Church messages like this don’t just advise—they police our bodies. Light-skinned black women rarely get the same scrutiny. The message is loud and clear: your desire is a problem, your skin tone matters, and your humanity is conditional.
We deserve guidance that respects us, not sermons that shame us for being human. 💔
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