Men have imaginations: many women heard this statement growing up, I gotta be honest truthfully this statement normalizes predatory behavior, if a man is having sexual fantasies about someone he doesn’t know or someone who isn’t into him in that kinda way it’s weird. I can understand having sexual fantasies if it’s someone you know and who’s mutually interested in you sexually, but otherwise it’s weird and predatory! And normalizes abuse especially if a grown man is having fantasies about a child!