I remember a church skit I saw as a child. It depicted a young woman being lured into a car by a man who was aggressive—but that was it. There was no explanation, no context, no language for what was happening. Kids were left to interpret it on their own.

Someone should have said, either before or after: “This is rape. Consent is required. If this happens, here’s what to do and who to tell.” Vague depictions aren’t just unhelpful—they’re dangerous.

That’s why my book is direct. I describe situations clearly, including being coerced into sex somewhere you’re uncomfortable—even in a car. I name rape explicitly. I talk about consent and the importance of reporting to police or trusted adults. I even make sure to point out that not all rape is violent. Rape isn’t always forceful or physically aggressive. Coercion, manipulation, or taking advantage of someone’s vulnerability is also rape—and that deserves to be named and recognized.

Churches, schools, and parents need to stop tiptoeing around this topic. Clear language saves lives. Teaching consent, boundaries, and what to do if you or someone you know is assaulted empowers children and teens. Silence or euphemisms leave them confused and unprepared.

By being honest and direct, we give young people the tools to recognize abuse, speak up, and seek help. That’s why my book doesn’t shy away from these truths—and why it’s time for more open, detailed conversations in every space where kids are learning about right and wrong.